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Flakey Gays: Why is Follow-Through So Hard? The guy who constantly cancels plans, keeps things vague, or disappears when something better comes along — that’s flakiness: a pattern of not following through.
In a culture of endless options and shifting feelings, has unreliability quietly be
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The guy who constantly cancels plans, keeps things vague, or disappears when something better comes along — that’s flakiness: a pattern of not following through.
In a culture of endless options and shifting feelings, has unreliability quietly become normal? And what does that actually say about us?
In this off-the-cuff episode, we talk about:
What flakiness actually is — and what it isn’t
The difference between boundaries and excuses
Common avoidance patterns in dating and friendships
Why keeping your word is about more than just social plans
What it really means to be a reliable man
This isn’t just about the inconvenience of canceled plans. It’s about self-trust, stronger relationships, and the kind of man you’re practicing becoming.
Today's Hosts:
Matt Landsiedel
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - Gay Men Going Deep: FlAKY Gays(00:03:24) - Gay Men Talk About Flakiness(00:07:37) - How to run a group(00:08:45) - Flaky Gay Men vs Avoidant Gay Men(00:13:03) - Being Candid With People(00:16:34) - Gay Men Talk About When They Don't Want To Connect With Me(00:20:13) - How to Get More Out of Your Friendships(00:21:10) - Lack of Follow Through(00:25:50) - Matt On His Love Life(00:29:04) - In the Elevator With Flakiness(00:30:25) - Gaming Going Deep
GUID: https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/30829/episode/2384247
Erscheinungsdatum: 19.3.2026, 11:00:00
